I don't understand when the bilingual ask "do you understand this," in English, when I'm trying to listen.
There's almost always one somebody who needs to know how much I know about what other people are saying, and must ask in the one language that I'm not trying to learn.
Intuitive thinking is broken, rhythm of comprehension disturbed and all for a question that has no answer.
I get confused.... I don't know what to say....
It's a rude question in the wrong language.