You don't really give me much to go on. I'm not sure what you're asking.
Women are passive. It is incumbent upon the man to initiate a connection. It is an unfortunate effect of modern feminism that the more-sensitive men are discouraged with a thousand little insults from even trying to mate with so-called liberated females who wonder what happened to all the good men.
Or maybe they don't. Maybe they prefer the heartless idiot who lets her believe what she wants to believe as long as he can fuck her.